Gisela: Shame on you! How dare you sit there and charge. Do you what it takes to marry a soldier and leave your country behind? Your family? Do you have any idea what it feels like to be different? I do. I know how cruel people can be. I still hear the jokes, the whispers. I know the difference just what friends can make. Were we too busy, too special to reach out to Min-Ji? We should all should feel ashamed. She needed help and we werent there for her. Tomorrow I could be the one who needs help, or maybe it could be you.